Zeek Bids Farewell |
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by Jo Ellen Green Kaiser, September 18, 2009 |
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Jewish in the Wilderness |
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by Rabbi Shefa Gold, September 17, 2009 |
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[1] (D.H. Lawrence, "A Propos of Lady
Chatterley's Lover." In Warren Roberts and Harry T. Moore, editors, Phoenix
II: Uncollected, Unpublished, and other prose works by D.H. Lawrence. New
York: The Viking Press, 1968).
[2] Song of Songs, Chapter 7, translation by Rabbi
Shefa Gold
Rabbi Shefa Gold is a leader in Aleph: Alliance for Jewish Renewal and received her ordination both from the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College and from Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi. She is the director of C-DEEP: The Center for Devotional, Energy and Ecstatic Practice in Jemez Springs, New Mexico and is also on the faculty of the Institute for Jewish Spirituality. She is the author of "Torah Journeys: The Inner Path to the Promised Land" released in 2006 and "In The Fever of Love: An Illumination of the Song of Songs" released in 2008.
Photo is of the Jemez Mountains, courtesy of visitusa.com
Where are the Jewish Men? An Interview with Rabbi Marcelo Bronstein |
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by Jo Ellen Green Kaiser, September 14, 2009 |
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Just in time for the holidays, Zeek editor Jo Ellen Green Kaiser talks to B'nai Jeshurun leader Rabbi Marcelo Bronstein about the declining role of men in congregational Judaism.
Born in Buenos Aires in 1954, Marcelo Bronstein was educated in Israel, Argentina and the United States. He holds an MA in Hebrew Letters from Hebrew Union College, where he also received his Rabbinical Ordination. He also holds a MA in Clincal Psychology from Belgrano University, Buenos Aires. In addition to his duties at B'nai Jeshurun, Rabbi Bronstein serves on the advisory boards of Human Rights Watch/Americas, Jews for Racial and Economic Justice, Soaring Words, and South Wing to Zion.
ZEEK: A recent study by Sylvia Barrack Fishman and Daniel Parmer (Matrilineal Ascent/Patrilineal Descent, Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies, Brandeis University, 2008) seems to show that men are leaving Jewish congregational life. Do you see that trend at B'nai Jeshurun?
Marcelo Bronstein: Women participate much more than men in our congregational life. Don't misunderstand me: we have a full congregation, full of life. But the core of what we are about is thanks to women. If not for our women, we wouldn't have hazzanim, daily minyan, shiva minyanim, or chevra kedisha.
I am a product of the feminist revolution, so the fact that women lead most of the activities of our congregation never bothered me. I have always thought that the people who want to get involved, will get involved. I never paid attention to whether those people were men or women.
But suddenly, I began to hear people talk, and began to listen to others and even pay attention to what it was in front of my eyes. Also recently, I participated in a conversation at NYU on gender and education. Speakers said that finding a male educator, a male teacher in New York, would be very soon like finding a diamond in the street. They are that rare.
ZEEK: So, where are the men? Why aren't they participating?
MB: Well, that's what I wanted to find out. So I started talking to men.
When you ask men who have left the congregation, men who have married outside Judaism, they say that Jewish women are too strong. They say they want to find Golde, the old-fashioned Jewish woman, but they can't find any Jewish women like her, so they turn to Asian women, women from other cultures.
Several men told me that, which confused me. I replied that the Golde in Fiddler on the Roof was very strong. They say, yes, strong but loving. Well, that is another conversation, a conversation about what men want or think they want in a woman. I felt that the answers they were giving me represented their emotional feelings, but maybe were not the whole answer to why they left.
When women were not happy with Judaism, they stayed. They stayed behind the mehitzha until they tore it down. But men are leaving. I am very concerned about Judaism. I don't think this is good for men, for women, for anyone.
ZEEK: What can you do about that, as a congregational rabbi?
MB: Well, I started a men's group, not because the men asked, but because I noticed these things. When I started, six men signed up, but at the first meeting, sixty came. They didn't want to sign up, but they wanted to come. Since then, we have held the group once a month.
I should say that creating a men's group at my synagogue, a very politically progressive synagogue in New York, was very politically incorrect. I thought someone would cut my head off. I was afraid of my feminist members.
So, before starting the group I went to talk to a feminist friend. I told her I wanted to start a men's group, and asked her opinion. She said, I love what you are doing. Why, I asked. She said, In the beginning, feminists chopped the testicles off men. That was a necessary act of war. Afterwards, when we achieved some equality, we sat and cried. Where are the men? They oppressed us, so we castrated them. So I like that you are trying to celebrate the differences without imposing power.
ZEEK: Woah.
MB: Yes. In the beginning, I called some guys about coming to the group's first meeting, and they laughed. They said, Ok, we will come, but this can't be a rosh chodesh group. We are not going to talk about feelings, we are not going to cry. I put that in the advertisement. It became a kind of joke.
ZEEK: What did they want?
MB: They wanted to daven. They wanted to hear just male voices. So we met at mincha, Shabbat afternoon. We daven together, and then have whiske--a very good single malt scotch whiskey--and crackers and cheese. And then we have a conversation. At first, we did Torah study, but I realized that these men really wanted to talk. Recently, we talked about Esther Perel's book, Mating in Captivity.
She came to talk to the group. Men were mesmerized. Some men were crying, because they felt they were being understood and not judged. They wanted more of that.
I think Jewish men have not found themselves. This is something women did during the feminist movement. Women learned how to find themselves. In the Jewish world, women met in rosh chodesh groups, created rituals. They gained equality but also found a way to be Jewish women.
ZEEK: Yes, including writing liturgy for women's lifecycle events like menstruation and menopause. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Jews are doing that now as well, with queer retreats like Nehirim and new LGBT siddurim. But men, well, men used to be the ones to say kiddush while women lit the candles. Now, women say kiddush. What is left for men to do? What is their role?
MB: Jewish men are lost. It's not clear to men what it means to be a man. If they listen to women, what it means to be a man is to be bad, aggressive, fascist. All their good qualities--tenderness, compassion, empathy--are called their feminine side. So what is my masculine side, what is good there?
I feel comfortable, personally, as a man, so I was surprised when a male congregant said I was a feminine rabbi. Why do you say that? I asked him. Well, he said, you cry, you talk about feelings, you hug. I can't relate to that. I was stunned. So I was thinking, what is a male role model?
ZEEK: That question reminds me of the poet Robert Bly, who wrote a memoir titled Iron John about his need to recover his inner warrior. Feminists criticized him for believing that the only way to be masculine was to be aggressive, a warrior. Can't men find a way to be manly without masculinity being associated with aggression and dominance?
MB: That is what I don't know. I do think, though,
that we have an imbalance in Jewish life. I believe that men don't see a place
for themselves in Jewish life. Men are not needed anymore basically for
anything--not for the minyan, not for the reading of the Torah, not for
witnessing. In life in general, men are not needed not as providers, or even as
the ones that will impregnate women. Sperm banks do that too.
If the paradigm of the provider, the hunter, the dominant
one is past, we men have to generate another paradigm that is liberated from
patriarchal weight.
ZEEK: Western culture tells us that men are violent, aggressive and women are peaceful, submissive. Why does that binary have to define us?
MB: Well, what do you think, as a feminist, that men could learn from the feminist movement?
ZEEK: I'm thinking about the physical body. The early feminists, the first wave, often hated their bodies because they saw the female body as soft and vulnerable and what they wanted was to gain power. But once women began gaining more power in culture, we were able to embrace our bodies. I wonder if that is what men need to do? If they need to--well, to be graphic--to reimagine the penis not as a weapon, as a symbol of power and dominance, but in some other way? To find a way to be proud of hardness and strength without it being tied to dominance?
MB: Maybe. What we need is a role model for that.
ZEEK: Yes, perhaps someone like King David, who was warrior and lover, king and poet.
MB: I love the David imagery. Yes he was a poet, a lover and a king, though for some, he was not a very good king--he was too controlled by his passions. David was human.
The issue that we cannot escape from is the issue of power.
Are men disappearing from Jewish life or from the world of education, social work, etc, because women came in? Because we men don't know how to be without being in control? If that is the case we desperately need to change the paradigm, because nobody is going back to the caves of inequality; that was a human's rights war and it was won.
In the equation of equal but different there is an answer, but I don't know which one is yet.
ZEEK: Thank you, rabbi.
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The opening image for this essay is Tom Drury as Tevye in a 2003 production
Fiction: The Rov's Legacy |
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by Beth Kissileff, September 11, 2009 |
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"Your life takes precedence." Jacob Lamdan looked up from the heavily used
volume of Gemara, the Babylonian Talmud, lying on his desk. "That's it. Your
life."
Jay stared across the desk. "I know. It's a famous Gemara, but...." Jay boyishly
scratched his hair, the looping brown curls at the top of his forehead yielding
to the straightness of the rest of his closely cropped locks.
His teacher, sensitive to the nuances of his protegee's voice, looked up from the
page and focused his sharp blue eyes on Jay. " ‘Ein ha baishan lomed.
The shy one will never learn.' What's your question?"
Jay gazed at his book, its ink less than ten years old, in contrast to the
century old ink on Lamdan's full set of the Vilna Shas. Jay's volume had
been purchased at the end of the two years he spent learning at Yeshivat
Shalvei Olam, in the Etzion bloc. Jay remembered his nervousness
going into the bookstore on Me'ah Shearim together with one of the guys on his
program. They knew that the ultra-Orthodox owners would look down on them in
their modern garb, and would withhold their best deals. The proprietor told
them it was bad luck to buy for yourself; a Shas is what a father-in-law
should buy when a bocher becomes engaged.
Lamdan's Gemara was from a different part of the world. A few years ago, he had
decided to take his three children and their families back to his hometown in
Hungary. They had wandered into an antique store near the town, and there was
the same edition of Gemara his grandfather had owned. Lamdan had to have it,
though the shipping cost more than the volumes, it was a tangible remnant of
his pre-war life. The books were covered in sumptuous brown leather with gold
lettering; the print was clear, the pages still crisp and white.
"It just seems selfish, not trying to
save someone else. Honestly, Rav Lamdan, if I were in that situation I couldn't
sit and watch someone else die while I drank my water."
"Don't you see, he can't save the other
person if he doesn't take care of himself. They can't both live with that
amount of water, better for one to live than both to die."
"It doesn't feel right."
Lamdan raised his eyes from the volume
and waited for Jay too, to look up from his text. "Jay, I would like you to go
see Rabbi Stone. I believe he can tell you something that may interest you."
Jay gave Lamdan a quizzical look. "Stone?
I don't need another job, I have a fellowship. He began to worry, does Lamdan
not think my work is good enough to finish my dissertation and get an academic
job?
"Just go. Call his secretary for an appointment." Lamden scribbled a phone
number on a piece of legal paper, tore it off.
"Are you going to tell me what it's about?" Jay asked anxiously.
"Talk to Stone. Now let's learn, nu?
Read the Tosafot please."
Monday morning, after his teaching assistant duties for an Introduction to
Judaism class, Jay pedaled his bicycle north on Princeton-Kingston Road to
the Institute for the Legacy of Rov Firesztein. As Jay rode, he could
hear Lamdan saying in his kind but firm Hungarian accent, "Hashem gave us these
capacities, mind and body. For what? To use. We must use our bodies as much as
our minds." In his sixties, Lamdan still swam four times a week.
As Jay progressed north, he grew agitated. Would he find the place in time for
his meeting? As he rode his bicycle further and the homes grew larger, their
grass visibly greener in relation to the ministrations of better paid and more
highly skilled landscapers, he felt more and more out of place.
In this part of Princeton, no one rode bicycles. His stood out, black with chipping
paint and the orange electrical tape his roommates put over the frame one weekend
when he was away. The black of the frame was a faded and lackluster color that
looked worse next to the brilliant hue of orange tape. But the orange and
black, Princeton colors, jazzed the bike up.
Jay looked again at the numbers on the houses. The magisterial homes in this
part of town were set so far back from the street that it was impossible to see
house numbers. Finally, he saw the house numbers stenciled on the curb for the
benefit of ambulances and deliveries; they were already larger than the one
he'd been given.
Jay turned his bicycle around and retraced his steps. The numbers began
descending closer to the address he'd been given. As he turned back en route, he
began thinking about how a big part of the life of a graduate student was not
knowing where one was going. Was it to a life of one year positions, moving
from place to place in the hopes of eventually securing a tenure track job? Or,
even with outstanding publications, references, and teaching evaluations would
it be to the eventual defeat of law school, the need to make a living and get
married prevailing over the desire to have an academic career? As he pedaled
back in the direction of Rabbi Stone and his Institute, Jay remembered Lamdan's
saying that what Stone had to say could help him.
Princeton was full of these institutes, for this or that person, all coveting
the 08540 zip code. They all hoped to be mistaken for "The Institute,"
Princeton's Institute of Advanced Studies, where the Rov had been a fellow the
last ten years of his life, after his wife passed away. It was unusual for a
religious figure to be at the Institute, but Rov Firesztein, also had a
doctorate in philosophy, and like his French counterpart Emanuel Levinas, was a
pre-eminent figure in both the philosophical and literary worlds.
After the Rov died, a number of his students asked his disciple, Rabbi Stone,
to open an institute dedicated to him. The Advanced Institute declined to allow
Rabbi Stone space to continue the legacy of their deceased fellow, believing
that continuing the work of another, even an Institute Fellow, was derivative. It
was decided that Princeton was the appropriate locale both because it was the
last place the Rov had lived, and because all his books and papers were there.
It was also, conveniently, the home of its main funder, who quickly made some
phone calls, got pledges and bought a piece of property. The Institute was
born.
When Jay arrived, he wiped the sweat from his brow with a towel he'd stashed in
the backpack. Where to lean his bike? There was no bike rack in front of the
formally landscaped house. He positioned it carefully in front of the manicured
hedges without disturbing any other plantings.
He went in the heavy wooden front double door to a space that was a collision
of public and private. The foyer was the central area of the house and arrayed
around it were different rooms. In front of him was a large desk, which seemed
to signal a reception area though there was no one sitting in it now. The desk
was in front of a set of mahogany doors, more elaborate than the ones on the
outside of the house. Jay thought there was something menacing in their heft;
they appeared heavy enough to crush a person.
Lonely Man of Faith: Soloveitchik |
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by Mordecai Drache, September 4, 2009 |
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Modern Orthodoxy: to
many non-Orthodox Jews, this phrase is simply a contradiction in terms. How, after all,
could the belief in divine authorship of the Tanakh be compatible with
"modern" ways of looking at the world, "modern theoretical" frameworks through
which truth is found, and "modern" life in general?
The new film, "The Lonely Man of Faith: The Life and Times of Joseph B. Soloveitchik," reminds us that we have a guide in answering this question. The Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik--the pre-eminient modern Orthodox scholar of the past century--helped lead the modern Orthodox over this interpretive divide. The film,
produced by Ethan Isenberg, takes
the Rav's most famous philosophical treatise for its title, and gives us an impetus to look at the thought of the Rav once again.
1. Doublets and DH
When examining the Tanakh, contemporary religious
studies scholars--contemporary being perhaps a less loaded term than
"modern"--and some progressive clergy, subscribe to the Documentary
Hypothesis (DH),
which states that there are at least four writers of the Torah, all of
whom
wrote separate works that were later pieced together by a redactor.
Such scholars often cite "doublets" in which two
different versions of the same story appear. By thorough linguistic analysis possible only for those with an extremely intimate
knowledge of ancient Hebrew, believers in DH cite turns of phrases, syntactic
patterns, and units of grammar to distinguish between sections they believe
were written by different authors. To the non-Hebrew speaker, and even
to Hebrew speakers who only know modern Hebrew, it's all a bit too specialized and
confusing to follow; however scholar Richard Elliot Friedman in Who Wrote
The Bible argues the case compellingly by italicizing the verses written by one proposed author while leaving
the other verses in their regular form. When one reads the
italicized verses on their own, followed by the non-italicized, the result is
what appears to be two disparate and smoothly executed pieces of writing
combined into one that is comparably confusing.
Some non-Orthodox Jews love Torah despite its inconsistences; for other non-orthodox, DH can explain away the inconsistencies. For Orthodox Jews, however, Torah is the divine word of God. Inconsistencies cannot be explained away as the result of multiple authors. Their teaching is that there was ultimately only one Divine author and that the work, no matter how confusing, coheres into something comprehensible and profound.
This being said, it would be
dangerously wrong to assume that Jews who acknowledge the divine provenance of
the Tanakh are, or ever have been, passive in their approach to Torah
study. Historically, and still today,
"doublets" give rise to midrash, interpretation. In the words of Dr.
Jacob Neusner, professor of Jewish theology at Bard College:
Midrash minimizes the authority of the wording
of the text as communication, normal language.
It places the focus on the reader and the personal
struggle of the reader to reach an acceptable moral
application of the text. While it is
always governed
by the wording of the text, it allows for the reader to
project his or her inner struggle into the text. This
allows for some very powerful and moving
interpretations which, to the ordinary user of language,
seem to have very little connection with the text.
The great weakness of this method is that it always
threatens to replace the text with an outpouring of
personal reflection. At its best it requires the
presence of mystical insight not given to all readers.
It is through this lens that a Non-Orthodox Jew can begin to understand Joseph B.
Solovetichik, author of The Lonely Man of Faith, a foundational text of
modern Orthodox Jewish philosophy.
2. Becoming The Rav
Born in 1903 in the town of Pruzhany, whose governing state at the time was
Russia, and today Belarus, Joseph S. Solovetichik was primarily educated as a
child by his father Rabbi Moshe Soloveitchik, a highly respected Talmudic
scholar of the time, but deeply influenced by his mother, Pesha, who impressed
on her young son a taste for secular literature in multiple languages. A scion of a rabbinic line on both sides of
his family, the young Joseph Soloveitchik was also heavily influenced by his
grandfather, Rabbi Chaim Soloveitchik of Brisk, who developed a revolutionary
form of Talmudic learning. The "Brisker Method," as it came to be known,
required Talmud students to divide copious tracts of Talmudic datum into
clusters. Afterwards, these clusters would be examined and analyzed for precise
definition, concept by concept. Before this point, contradiction and
ambiguities were discussed and discussed and discussed until reconciliations
could be found--or not found as the case might. Today, there are debates in
the Orthodox world as to whether the Brisker method should be the sole method
through which Talmud study should be undertaken. Its influence, however, is undeniable.
Forced to leave Russia, by
foot, with his parents and siblings duing the Bolshevik revolution, the young
Joseph would eventually land in Poland, where his mother, Pesha, prevailed upon
her husband to allow their son to undertake a secular education. Later on, the
Rav--an honorific recognizing brilliance amongst Orthodox Jews-- would study
political science at the Free University of Warsaw, followed by philosophy at
the University of Berlin. By this point, an ordained Rabbi, in Germany he come
into contact with the works of Christian thinkers such as Søren Kierkegaard,
Rudolph Otto, and Karl Bardt who followed the Neo-Kantian school of thought
that stressed "the dialectical approach to reality."
In laymen's terms, "the dialectical approach to reality" means that opposing
and contradictory ideas are not to be feared but rather need to be confronted
head-on in order to find meaning, thus enriching religious life, not stifling
it. Coming from a background of Talmudic studies, in which differing ideas and
interpretations of Jewish law are central, it wasn't difficult for The Rav to
apply neo-Kantian thought to Judaism.
3. Lonely Man of Faith
The Rav's most famous work, The
Lonely Man of Faith, explores the meaning behind what Orthodox Jews might term
the "seeming" contradictions in the two Adam stories in the book of Genesis, or
what believers in DH would call "a doublet." The Rav alludes to DH early on
when he writes:
We all know that the Bible offers two accounts of the
creation of man. We are also aware of the theory suggested by Bible critics attributing these accounts to
two different traditions and sources... we reject this
hypothesis which is based, like much biblical criticism,
on literal categories created by modern man.
Adam the first, writes The Rav, is commanded by God "to fill the earth and
subdue it" while Adam the second is "charged with the duty to cultivate the
garden and keep it." Adam the first represents "the natural work community," a
collective of people whose goals can be measured through quantifiable
standards, while Adam the second represents the "covenantal community" whose
concern is to stave off "loneliness."
In simplistic terms that truly do not capture the depth of The Rav's
thought, Adam the first is pragmatic, and his interest and fascination in the
cosmos is largely caught up in this-worldly activities that can be anything
from running a successful business to developing cures for illnesses to
exploring space. He looks to the religious community for comfort, and through
the mercurial lens that treats religious faith like a transaction: what can
Judaism do for me?
Adam the first is interested in just a single aspect of
reality
and asks one question only-"How does the cosmos function?
He is not fascinated by the question "Why does the cosmos
function at all?' nor is he interested in the question,
"What is
its essence?" He
is only curious to know how it works.... He
is complete utilitarian as far as motivation, teleology, design
and methodology are concerned....
In contrast, Adam the second
is arguably more child-like, more innocent. He is fascinated by the cosmos for
its own sake. His longing for answers does not come from any desire to use them
to any other end but to be close with God.
[Adam the second] wants to know: "Why is it? What is it?
Who is it? He Wonders: "Why did the world in its totality come
into existence ? Why is man confronted by this stupdendous and
indifferent order of things and events?' He asks: "What is the
purpose of all this? What is the message that is embedded in
organic and inorganic matter and what
does the great challenge
reaching me from beyond he fringes of he universe as well as
from the depths of tormented soul mean?
Soloveitchik does not favor either Adam; he merely believes that humans in the
modern era are overly concerned with the utilitarianism of Adam the first to
the detriment of Adam the second, and that the fullness of religious life comes
from balancing both. As such, Jews who
do not subscribe to Orthodoxy and who are more likely to ascribe the Adam
doublet to DH can still enjoy, and in fact, be inspired by Soloveitchik's
examination of the Adams as powerful archetypes.
Does the Rav ever--to borrow a phase from Jacob Neusner--"replace the text
with an outpouring of personal reflection"? The beauty of his work is that he
doesn't. His personal reflections do
not amount to more than a single page in this extended book-length essay, and
when they do they are honest and succinct, without being maudlin or saccharine
, and are used only to create a solid base upon which to build a philosophy out
of loneliness.
I
am lonely because in my humble, inadequate way,
I am a man of faith for whom to be means to believe
and who substituted "credo" for "cogito" in the time-
honoured Cartesian maxim. [italics added]
4. Isenberg's Film
Film is not the best medium for philosophy; those wanting to get a sense of his philosophy are much better off reading his
books, preferably about four or five times since each additional reading will
undoubtedly yield something new.
The aim of the film instead is the
impact of the man. What works so well is the combination of
audiovisual sources, of sound and imagery. The footage of Bolsheviks on
galloping horseback on their way to wreak destruction; the photos of the young
Rav as a bold and dark-eyed, handsome clean-shaven student, minus the yarmulke
and his beautiful wife to be, Tonya, in
round spectacles who, at the time he met her, was earning her doctorate in
education; the narration by multiple-award-winning actress Tovah Feldshuh; the
jazz score in combination with photographic cityscapes of Berlin.
In the midst of all this, the audience learns about the debates his father had with his students about the Maimonides, debated the Rav overheard as a child; his years as
a philosophy student in Berlin; his move with his wife and daughter to New York
City where his father was teaching; his clashes with ultra-Orthodox Jewish
leaders who opposed Zionism on the religious grounds that the messiah had not
yet comes; the kashrut scandal in Boston in which he exposed for the
world to see both the exploitation of factory workers and the reality that kashrut
standards were not followed; his fights with the Boston Jewish to create a
Jewish day school at a time of rife anti-Semitism; and his insistence on girl's
and women's education in the Orthodox community. The details covered, that might have well been dizzying in the
hands of an inferior filmmaker, could not have been more smoothly employed
under Isenberg's direction. In simple terms, regardless of religion or
religious orientation, the film is a joy to watch.
In terms of his philosophy, can it have an impact outside the Modern Orthodox
Jewish community? Yes, if one is willing
to suspend religious skepticism long enough treat Adam the first and Adam the
second as archetypes. Should the modern reader subscribe to the Documentary
Hypothesis, the very theory Solovetichik rejected, he or she can gain a greater
appreciation through Solveitchik for the beauty and artistry in which "the
redactor," the mysterious person who compiled these disparate Adam stories
together, knit them into a single text. The redactor, acting in the capacity as
a modern editor, allowed for the full nuances of ambiguity to be explored,
culminating into Solveitchik's brilliant and poetic casuistry that can enrich
Jews of all intellectual and spiritual orientations, so long as the said reader
can let go of the idea of there needing to be a completely consistent text.