Pay Up: or pull outIsraeli mikvah attendants—the women who supervise dunks into the ritual baths to make sure they’re kosher—haven’t been paid in five months, so Kolech, an Orthodox feminist organization, is working to organize a mikvah boycott until ladies of the bath get paid. Without dunking in the mikvah after her period, a woman isn’t supposed to have sexual relations with her husband, so the boycott would effectively deprive Orthodox couples of intimacy until the issue is worked out.
On the Kolech website (Hebrew) Batia Kahana-Dror writes: "Let's drive them crazy, all those who wait restlessly for the night that their woman goes to the mikvah. All those who make up the majority in the religious councils, the Treasury, the Religious Services Ministry and the Knesset, the rabbis and the leaders. Stop. No more sex."
Kahana-Dror is echoing an ancient theme of women withholding sex for the good of their communities. Here are some examples:
- Lysistrata: First and foremost, we have Aristophanes’ play Lysistrata, in which the women of Athens decide to withhold sex from their husbands until peace is declared—a strategy that proves entirely effective. In that vein, The Lysistrata Project began staging readings of the play in 2002. They sponsor events and encourage activism to seek inventive solutions to violence and economic crises, specifically the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.
- The Strike of Crossed Legs: In 2006 in Pereira, Colombia, dozens of women took part in the "Strike of Crossed Legs." When gang members weren't handing in their guns, their wives and girlfriends organized and decided to stage a sex strike. They came up with a strike anthem rap song that included the lyrics: "As women we are worth a lot. We don't want to fall for violent men because with them we lose too much."
- Water for Sex: In Sirt, Turkey, women staged a month long sex strike, protesting the
lack of accessible running water in their village. After the existing
water supply system broke and the women were forced to walk miles and
wait in lines for hours to get water for their homes, they came up with
the idea of withholding sex from their husbands until the water supply
problem was fixed. After what CNN called "frantic lobbying on the part
of Sirt's male population" a governmental official was convinced to
pipe water into the town.
- Lysistrata with a Twist: Bolivian prostitutes went on a hunger strike when the bars and strip joints where they worked were shut down in 2007. In addition to taking over the local AIDS clinic and refusing to eat, the sex workers threatened to parade around naked. A spokesperson said that if the town of El Alto wanted to do away with prostitution, "then the government should give us a hand and take care of our children, and afterward provide us with jobs."
Related:
Does a Mikvah Dunk Make Pre-Marital Sex Kosher?
Rachel Heller
Is this (from Arutz Sheva) for real?
http://www.israelnationalnews.com/News/Flash.aspx/144822
April 11th, 2008 / 6 Nissan, 5768
Minister for Religious Services, Yitzchak Cohen, announced the
transfer of NIS 10 million to pay the salaries of religious council
employees, including mikveh attendants, in 40 religious councils
nationwide."This year, the Feast of Freedom will receive a new meaning for hundreds of balaniyot
[female mikveh attendants]," Cohen said. The transfer of funds is
intended to make up for salaries that were not paid in full by some of
the local councils, Cohen explained.
Tamar Fox
Huzzah!
Ashmodai
Here's another historic sex strike
I learned from Prof. Joseph Schatzmiller of the University of Toronto that in the time of Maimonides, the Jewish women of Cairo refused to go to the mikvah until their demands for certain halakhic leniencies were met. Despite blustering from their husbands and the Rambam, they apparently got their way eventually. (I wish I could be more specific--I found a few very brief references to that incident online, so apparently it was historically true.)
Oxartes
Hello all!Way back
Hello all!
Way back before Mrs. Oxartes & I got married (1988), I went to a lecture in Jerusalem, at the local AACI (http://www.aaci.org.il) office, by a religious woman attorney, on the legal status of marriage in Israel. She mentioned an incident in Montreal about an orthodox couple getting a divorce. He granted his wife a civil divorce but was blackmailing her over the get. She didn't get mad, she got even. She organized her friends who organized their friends, etc. until around 100 women signed a statement that they wouldn't go to the mikveh until their friend received a get. The recalcitrant husband caved in in 5 days after his car was repeatedly vandalized, after he received threatening phone calls at all hours, after he was roughed up, etc. Nice! Good for her. (I'm surprised her husband lasted a whole 5 days.)
L'chaim!
Oxartes
"But leave the Wise to wrangle,
and with me The Quarrel of the Universe let be:
And, in some corner of the Hubbub coucht,
Make Game of that which makes as much of Thee."
Omar Khayyam, "The Rubaiyat
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