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The Ice-Cream Rule And The Arab-Israeli Conflict
By Roi Ben-Yehuda / October 30, 2008Growing up in Argentina, my girlfriend Gabriela and her sister Paola cherished ice-cream day. On that day they got to eat as much ice-cream as they could. Only there was a catch. Gabriela’s mother employed The Ice Cream Rule: one sibling would decide how much ice-cream would go into each bowl, while the other had the right to first pick. That way, if one of the sibling had distributed the ice-cream unevenly, the other benefited. It was an ingenious system designed for fairness.
Now, what if we could employ the ice-cream rule to the Arab-Israeli conflict? Imagine the following: President Obama meets with Abbas and Livni/Netanyahu. He gives the latter a map and says, “Go ahead, two states for two people. You draw the boundaries, you choose a capital, and you decide where people have a right to reside. There will be no opposition or interference from Abbas. However, once you finish, it is up to Abbas alone to choose which side to take.”
Is there any question as to how the conflict would be resolved? Half a bowl of ice-cream for Abbas and half for Livni. Of course, such an approach would seemingly not be in Israel’s immediate interest since she possesses more than half of historic Palestine (the much more developed side as well). However, as has become clear to many across the Israeli political spectrum, if in the immediate future there is no viable solution to the Palestinian-Zionist conflict, Israel’s territorial advantage (along with its demographic baggage) will be her undoing. Thinking over a divided land, I am reminded of the story of King Solomon. As is told, when two prostitutes came to the king with conflicting claims over ownership of a baby, he adjudicated with a stratagem: "Cut the live child in two", he said, "and give half to one and half to the other." Realizing what is at stake, the real mother came forth and pleaded with the king to give the child to the other woman, "only don’t kill the baby." The other woman said, “Cut it in two.” Hearing this, the king immediately returned the child to its rightful mother. Now it is not out-of-bounds to use this story to champion the vision of a one-state solution, or Greater Israel or Greater Palestine. If the baby is a symbol for the land, then the true owner of the land will not compromise by dividing it into parts. On some kind of mystical level, the land needs to be indivisible and whole. One people, one land / two people, one land. Either way, one land it must remain. But there is another reading of the story that could be helpful. It seems to me that the moral of the story is that real and unconditional love sometimes means letting go of something that is of ultimate concern. For the child to survive, the mother had to let go of her claims to him. Likewise, if the people of Israel and Palestine love their land as much as they say they do, then they need to let go of their vision of what Palestine and Israel ought to be – not let go of a vision of Palestine or Israel per say, just the one that is keeping them from realizing peace. Israelis and Palestinians are attached to myths (e.g. undivided Jerusalem, right of return) that given the reality on the ground serve no good. A new schema is in order, one that is based on genuine compromise and fairness, not on the unreasonable and exclusive claims of religion and history.



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I second Gabsibabsu’s insights here.
Rob, you see the "simple" question as idiocy, yet Roi’s sharp observations ("However, as has become clear to many across the Israeli political spectrum, if in the immediate future there is no viable solution to the Palestinian-Zionist conflict, Israel’s territorial advantage (along with its demographic baggage) will be her undoing.") clearly surpassed your capacity for reason. A mention of Hitler and the conversation is closed – how counterproductive. It’s also a lazy assertion, if you’re truly interested in the resolution of this conflict. Roi is not (nor am I) questioning the legitimacy of Israel’s founding – so perhaps you could explain why your statement is productive rather than simply emotional.
Much more useful is the searing insight Roi makes in his final paragraph: that perhaps Israelis and Palestinians are both attached to myths that, given the reality of the situation, serve neither party adequately and certainly don’t move us closer to a solution. The implementation of the "ice-cream rule" seems more realistic, frankly, than success via any means tried before.Â
What is easy? I mean really, in this life nothing is promised to us and nothing is so easy. To love our children, that is easy but to protect our children, that is not so easy, but loving parents want to do so. In loving our children it should be our duty to teach fairness and if we lead by example it will start a greater movement and when our children grow up (and take over this world) things could be different. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but maybe in 10 years, maybe longer, but If we expect it to be different and work hard at being different ourselves, change will come!!
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