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 How I Went From an NYU Law Student to a Smut Writer

How I Went From an NYU Law Student to a Smut Writer

Book Club: Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica
Rachel Kramer Bussel
 

Rachel Kramer Bussel, author of Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, is guest blogging this week as one of Jewcy's Lit Klatsch bloggers. Her book is a collection of stories about spanking and its sexual appeal. 

Before I officially start, a word of warning: some links may not be safe for work viewing.

Hi, I’m Rachel Kramer Bussel, and I write and edit smut. Or porn. Or erotica, whichever you choose. I don’t really care what you call the dirty stories in my books, and tend to think that those who press the porn vs. erotica question are simply looking to obscure the issue. The point of my books is to get people off, and hopefully along the way, make them think a little.

Today I want to share how I went from an NYU Law student to the editor of 24 anthologies ranging from spanking to foot fetishes to exhibitionism to crossdressing. You could say it’s all because of Monica Lewinsky. She was the protagonist of my first published story, called “Monica and Me,” written circa 1999. It was a fantasy about, well, Monica and me, about what would happen if I (or rather, my narrator) met her at a booksigning. I took something true (my crush on her) and turned it into fiction for a book of celebrity sex fantasies called Starf*cker. That was just as I was leaving law school, uncertain about my future (I never graduated from law school). I went on to work at various administrative jobs, and kept on writing in my spare time. I wrote and submitted and erotica story every few months, many of them true, about my budding sexual explorations, and found getting published to be a thrill I fast became addicted to.

In 2004, I got offered a job as Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations, where I still work, and later went on to write the Lusty Lady sex column for The Village Voice and other nonfiction; I currently write the Dating Drama column for The Frisky. So dealing with sexual content, whether it's about my life or fictional, has proven pretty easy for me.

Along the way, I started editing erotic anthologies of my own, based on ideas supplied by publishers. Now, I tend to come up with an idea for an anthology, then pitch my main publisher, Cleis Press. Sometimes we bat ideas around for a while, and other times, they go for it right away. Then I put out a call for submissions, and wait for stories to roll into my inbox.

A recent review of my fellatio anthology Tasting Him: Oral Sex Stories, asked, “How could a collection of twenty-plus stories with such a narrow theme sustain any level of interest? And wouldn’t a focus on a single, physical sex act – fellatio – tend to move the content away from the psychological and emotional explorations that I view as the essence of erotica toward more superficial presentations reminiscent of bad porn?”

Oh, the possibilities.Oh, the possibilities.What’s interesting to me is taking a theme, whether it’s a sexual act or a location (my upcoming books Do Not Disturb and The Mile High Club deal with sex in hotel rooms and on planes) and mixing it up. In other words, not going for the obvious. I like when authors dazzle me with a story that makes me rethink sex, that turns me on, even after having read thousands of stories.

Maybe that means in the airplane book having cybersex via text message. Or exhibitionism via webcam. For my book on crossdressing, I had butches dressing as femmes and men wearing panties.

What I’ve learned in my years of writing and editing smut is that anything can be eroticizedæseriously, anything. Sometimes I teach erotic writing workshops and two of the exercises are: write a story involving a chair, and write a story involving George W. Bush. I don’t assign those because I have a fetish for either, but because seeing where those prompts take people’s erotic imaginations spurs me on.

Later this week, I’ll be sharing some erotic writing tips and some of my favorite non-erotic books from the past year. If you’re interested in writing erotica, I highly recommend checking out the site Erotica Readers & Writers Association. It’s the main resource I use and refer people to, and continually updates its list of calls for submission, as well as maintaining mailing lists and columns of interest to smut writers.

What I love best about erotica is how democratic it is. Everyone has fantasies, whether or not they have or will ever act on them, and those can spur stories spanning the globe and the range of sexual acts. Plus, erotica is booming, even with the economy and state of the publishing industry, so there are numerous opportunities to get published, or to just expand your writing repertoire or write a love note to someone.

Many people get started in erotica writing about their own lives, whether true stories or barely embellished fantasies. But I don't want you to think you have to write about your life to pen arousing erotica. Hardly. There are plenty of brilliant writers out there crafting outrageous, creative, and highly fictional stories that continue to wow me.

If you have questions about erotic writing you’d like to see me answer here, please feel free to drop me a line at rachelkramerbussel@gmail.com with “Jewcy” in the subject line. Later this week I'll take you behind the scenes of my first book trailer shoot (for Spanked) and share my favorite books of 2008.

Rachel Kramer Bussel, author of Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, is guest blogging on Jewcy, and she'll be here all week.  Stay tuned.



 

David N. Friedman


Jewcy gives its readers yet another titilating entry concerning the libertine standard regarding sexuality and we are encouraged to go for whatever feels good.  This entry brings up a question and perhaps someone might take a stab at answering it.

The author has lots of sex with many partners--many women and I presume many men.  I have been told that almost all very promiscuous women (including but not limited to porn stars) have lots of sex with other women.  When strippers and promiscuous women are iinterviewed, it seems that they universally admit to enjoying having sex with other women.

There is a clear double standard.  Men who have sex with other men are not merely searching and exploring for what feels good--they are branded.  They are homosexual. If they insist they are "bi-sexual"--no one believes it-- they are gay and other women will not get near the guy.

Here is the question:  activism tells us that sexual preference is not at all a choice, it is an inbred prediliction like handedness.  And yet, for active women--this theory does not apply at all as women go comfortably from man to woman to whatever feels good in whatever situation. So the activist party line applies only to men, right?  But the social stigma on male same sex attraction is so strong that a man who might simply be openminded and as adventursome as a very sexually active woman cannot get the same "deal."  They are stuck as sexual preference becomes gravely modified by social pressure and social standards.  What happens to the theory of the immutability of same-sex attraction when the testimony of the most sexually active are considered?  Does Rachel Bussel stand as powerful testimonmy against the theory that sexuality is determined at birth?





E-Rizzle


I think the post is awesome, and I look forward to reading your posts this week. After I'm off work, I plan to check out the links too...thanks for the advance warning!




Andrea Askowitz

Andrea Askowitz


Rachel,

I didn't know you were a law school drop out!  Nice.

 Love,

Andrea 





BellaGitana

BellaGitana


Can't wait to read more!  




schmitt

schmitt


My transition career will be male escort specializing in under-the desk button manipulation : )~. I will be servicing the female partners of 9 out of ten of the largest firms. As they will be working everyday all day in order to cover for the lay-offs I will making office calls posing as a high-rolling client.  Just yesterday, I serviced three somewhat elderly partners.