Just wait until you become pregnant and feel the baby growing and moving in you and you see them in a ultrasound and see how amazing the unborn child is and you give birth and look into those precious innocent eye's and you will wonder what the child you aborted would have been like! You may not have been ready for a baby then, but how many people are ever really ready? I have known many woman who got pregnant when they thought it was the worst timing and they did not want a baby right then but they chose to have the child anyway and it turned out that the baby was the best thing that ever happened to them. Now, I do realize that isn't the case with everyone.

I just couldn't do it because I would always wonder what that child would have been like or what I missed out on. I still say adoption is a great option. I know there are a lot of kids waiting for homes but those are the ones that the mother gives birth and either says then I don't want them or they try to keep them then decide later they don't want them and turn them over to be adopted. a lot of kids waiting are also kids who were taken away from parents due to abuse. If you decide when you are pregnant you don't want the baby but want them to have a good home, you can choose the parents for your baby and they will pay for all the prenatal care and the labor and delivery charges. Adoption is a gift for the baby, that gives them a chance to live life with parents who will want and love them and a gift for couples that can not have a baby of their own and are desperate for one. Abortion is a quick fix for a person that got knocked up and doesn't want a baby. I know there are a lot of other reasons women choose abortion and some I can understand some like if the child is deformed and will die anyway or the womans life is in danger and I can understand a woman who was raped wanting to abort due to the mental and emotional trauma.