Everybody has the following problem: "too many of the men I date make significant assumptions about me without getting to know me first."

If a man finds you attractive, he won't let the "rabbi" part interfere. If he doesn't pursue you, it's because he's not that into you.

Women don't like to marry down. They don't want to marry anyone less educated. As you are hyper-educated, like every other non-married hyper-educated woman, you're going to have a hard time. From 18-22 is the best time for a woman to find a husband. After a woman passes her mid-twenties, her stock starts going down. Just look at the rape rates. Females 12-25 get raped. After that, not so much.