I'm so glad that there are sensible yet modern people in the world that refuse to buy into the materialistic rat-race of American society. My boyfriend and I have only been "dating" a month but have known each other for 3 years. We have talked quite a bit about marriage and yes, even a ring. My ring will be custom made (with my help) with beautiful amber in the center (a true timeless stone). Izzy, although your particular wedding ring is not my personal taste, I think your idea is fantastic and I admire anyone who is confidant enough to forego a big smashing diamond for something more personal and unique. Besides saving a heck of a lot of money, it proves the couple is secure in their relationship and refuses to be like everyone else. I love that.