I'd say ... no....

Please keep in mind that everyone has different circumstances. I learned a long time ago... don't judge another person till you walk in their shoes....

Have I had an "emotional affair???.. yes.. and although the woman still lives in NYC, we don't speak very often anymore... I have kids, and she doesn't..

When you have kids, you have a different lifestyle. Single people don't have the responsibility of taking care of kids & their school issues...