The boy culture is boring? Neal, he's just a kid. It's time for him to be simple, and a little one-dimensional. Men are pretty simple, anyway, lifelong. It's G-d who is complicated and interesting. Get a religion, maybe. It would engage you both, and together. Orthodox Judaism is endlessly fascinating and challenging, and quite male, in a healthy way. Just a suggestion. But don't find your son irritatingly male and dull, or you will be pressuring him into becoming effeminate and interesting. That hurts, Neal. Careful. He's no duller than you. No offense.