but really?  are you seriously suggesting we implicitly forbid individual women who'll be gestating and birthing and raising (presumptuously with a whole lotta love) a new human being the right to choose carefully and using whatever personal preference she pleases the particular sperm she allows into her body?do you allow and and all sperm into your body?  in the service of blind/deaf/dumb universal human relations?  to prove you're not racist or elitist or classist or [fill in the blank]?  if i were dedicating my body and life to the rearing of a child, i think i'd be real fucking specific about how that happened.