I understand feeling awkward about replying to your own post, but I'm also glad that you did. The best thing about these posts is that they provide a forum for an exchange of ideas -- even those by (in my opinion) simplistic sorts who refuse to say more than a few disparaging, but completely inflammatory words, then creep back into the darkness without revealing themselves (yes Anonymous, I'm referring to you). I may or may not agree with your philosophies, Peter, but I utterly respect your courage to get out there and define them, both for yourself and us. Matters of observance are always complicated, especially when our loved ones are from different traditions. Good luck to you in the future. I'm sure you'll do well considering your honesty.