I don't know Getzel, but he sounds cool! He should have more faith about the fate of the world and the deserts blah blah. Sure, be prudent, and concerned, but don't be so horribly negative! Getzel will make a fine husband and father! When he eventually gets the courage to worry about his own growing family, instead of what's far away, and easy to fret vaguely over. But he is on the right path, and that is very cool! He is not suburban and materialistic. Cool! He may homeschool his kids a little when they come, that would be great... Mishnah discussions at the table! Parsha lessons: "Joseph forgave HIS brothers and they were a lot meaner than yours, Yoni ..."